Moving to a new country brings excitement and opportunity—but also the very real challenge of culture shock. Whether you’ve relocated for work, education, or personal reasons, understanding this universal experience can help you navigate the complex emotions that arise during cultural transition.
What is Culture Shock?
According to research by Naeem, Nadeem, and Khan (2015), culture shock encompasses “emotional, psychological, and physical responses triggered by the unfamiliarity of a new cultural environment.” Far from being a sign of weakness, culture shock is a natural reaction to significant cultural change that affects most expatriates, regardless of background or preparation.
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Cultural anthropologist Kalervo Oberg, who first coined the term “culture shock” in the 1950s, described it as “the anxiety that results from losing all familiar signs and symbols of social intercourse.” This definition highlights how deeply disorienting it can be when the unspoken rules governing everyday interactions suddenly change. Even highly adaptable individuals commonly experience symptoms including sleep disturbances, irritability, concentration problems, and a heightened sense of vulnerability during cultural transitions.
The Four Phases of Cultural Transition
This phenomenon typically unfolds in four distinct phases, starting with the honeymoon stage, followed by the frustration stage, adjustment stage and finally, the acceptance stage.
Honeymoon Stage
The Honeymoon Stage is characterised by fascination and enthusiasm for your new surroundings. During this phase, differences seem charming rather than challenging, and you’re energized by the novelty of exploration. However, this initial excitement is often temporary. Research indicates this stage typically lasts from a few weeks to several months, depending on the individual’s circumstances and the degree of cultural difference encountered.
Frustration Stage
Frustration Stage follows as daily realities set in. Communication barriers, unfamiliar social norms, and the absence of familiar support systems create genuine stress. During this phase, you might experience what researchers identify as “a combination of emotional, psychological, and physical responses” to cultural differences. Simple tasks like grocery shopping or accessing healthcare can become surprisingly difficult, leading to feelings of incompetence or isolation. Many expats report that this stage triggers unexpected emotional responses—anger over minor inconveniences, tearfulness, or withdrawal from social situations. What makes this stage particularly challenging is that these reactions often feel disproportionate or irrational, leading to additional frustration.
Adjustment Stage
The Adjustment Stage emerges as you begin developing effective coping strategies. You start recognising patterns in the culture, building new relationships, and establishing routines that work within your new environment. During this phase, small victories—like successfully navigating public transportation or having a meaningful conversation with a local—signal important progress. Neurological research suggests that this adaptation process actually creates new neural pathways as your brain becomes accustomed to processing different cultural cues and communication styles. This cognitive flexibility represents a valuable form of personal growth, even when the process feels challenging.
Acceptance Stage
Finally, the Acceptance Stage arrives when you’ve developed comfort in your cross-cultural identity. This doesn’t mean complete assimilation but rather the ability to function effectively while maintaining your authentic self. The differences that once seemed overwhelming become part of your expanded worldview. Studies of long-term expatriates indicate that this stage often brings a deeper appreciation for both host and home cultures, along with increased self-awareness about personal values and assumptions.
Common Challenges and Effective Solutions
Throughout these stages, common struggles include isolation, communication difficulties, and adapting to different workplace expectations. Research suggests that building a support network, maintaining curiosity about the culture, and developing language skills can significantly ease this transition.
Interestingly, experts in cross-cultural psychology have found that certain personality traits correlate with smoother adjustment processes. These include openness to experience, tolerance for ambiguity, and cognitive flexibility. However, even individuals without these natural tendencies can develop these qualities through mindful engagement with their new environment. Practical strategies include keeping a cultural observation journal, practicing mindfulness during challenging interactions, and intentionally seeking opportunities for cultural immersion balanced with periods of familiar comfort.
Moving Forward with Confidence
If you’re experiencing the effects of culture shock, remember that seeking support isn’t just acceptable—it’s a wise investment in your wellbeing and success abroad. Connect with one of our therapists who understands both the universal patterns of cultural adaptation and the specific experiences of South Asian expatriates navigating Western environments.
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Culturally-Informed Support for Your Journey
At PeacePlus, our therapists understand the unique challenges faced by South Asian expatriates. We recognize that culture shock interacts with aspects of identity including family dynamics, cultural values, and personal history. Our therapists provide culturally-informed support tailored to your specific situation—whether you’re dealing with anxiety, relationship challenges in a new cultural context, or processing deeper issues that surface during transition.
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